Unique

“NO ONE IS YOU AND THAT IS YOUR SUPERPOWER”

I am blessed in ways that are different from how you are blessed. I was given weaknesses that are not the same from yours and maybe we are grateful we were not given each others. I have also been given strengths that are different than the strengths that you have. We all bring something else to the table. Somethings we were blessed to be given or that came easy to us and others that we really had to work so hard to gain. We are all struggling daily to over come things, to not compare ourselves to others. I struggle at times wishing I had something that you may have or wish I didn’t have things that I do. But then I just give myself a good talking to and remind myself that no one is me and that is my superpower. And no one is you and that is your superpower. And that is awesome.

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Happiness

IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY YOU MUST BECOME A HAPPINESS SEEKER. YOU HAVE TO THINK ABOUT HAPPINESS, SEIZE THE HAPPINESS AND BELIEVE WITH ALL YOUR HEART THAT YOU DESERVE HAPPINESS.

-BRYANT MCGILL

Think of happiness as a personality trait. And like all personality traits you are either born with it or you can become that way.

Sometimes happiness is a hard one for me. It is something I have to work at daily. Lots of days my anxiety gets the better of me, or my 2 year old having a day (week) of the terrible twos gets the better of me. But it is something I am working on.

I have started trying to at the end of every day thinking of what things made me happy that day. Some people do a gratitude journal, but honestly I am too lazy, so I just think about it in my head. Some days I have to think really really hard to think of something good, something that made me happy that day. Honestly, some days the answer is, well everyone is still alive! And that’s ok. But for me this will be a lifelong journey, finding happiness everyday. It definitely gets easier as I really work to find that happiness everyday. I am truly trying to believe with all my heart that I really do DESERVE happiness.

 

FIT-ish

FIT-ish: Someone who likes the idea of being fit, but equally enjoys food.

I laughed SO hard when I read this! I thought this is SO me! Anyone else out there that can relate?? I love working out, I want my body to be healthy but I also REALLY love food. Good food, not so good for you food and treats. Oh I love it all.

Luckily you can have it both ways. I try to get some type of exercise in 4-5 days a week and I also let myself eat just about whatever I want. Now don’t get me wrong, I do eat things in moderation and I try to find a balance. I try not to just eat junk all day long and nothing healthy. I kind of go meal by meal and if one is not quite as good for me as it should be I try really hard to make the next one healthy. Or if one day isn’t so great because of family things or parties or all you can eat buffets or bbqs then I make sure the next day is a great one food wise. And in all honesty, I usually eat a treat twice a day. For me that works. It isn’t something big, after lunch it’s often just a piece of chocolate or like today I just ate a piece of double chocolate zucchini bread. And if I don’t feel like I need anything after lunch then great. We often have ice cream or banana nice cream after dinner. For my brain I need that little bit of sweetness to tell it that I am done eating. I definitely notice a difference when I don’t, I just want to keep snacking!

It is true though that you can’t out exercise a bad diet. There are days when I splurge a little too much and think if I was better at this self control thing I wouldn’t have to exercise so much. But most days it is good, I have found a happy medium that works for me. So don’t listen to those people that say sugar is evil and you can never have a single thing that tastes good. Ever. And you just have to exercise all day long and live off of broccoli and chicken. Boo to them. Find your moderation, what works for you. If you need any tips let me know. It’s been about 10 years now I think that I have been doing things like this and have kept 95 pounds off. It can be done!